Married sick more often, and lonely - less and less!

After the Europeans and Americans are beginning to our countrymen to adopt new forms of family. A marriage without children, the marriage season, remote polygamy and polyandry, polygamy is consistent - that's just part of the modern classification of the relations between man and woman. The past year 2009 was devoted to family. The colorful pictures and posters of smiling babies all 366 days pleased the eyes of Russians, and TV and newspaper coverage relentlessly stamped out the life of society with many cells. Alas, a year more memorable public events, than by any real steps.
One of the crushing blows struck home recently, American social scientists from the National University of Michigan. They came to the conclusion that the adage ... Married sick more often, and lonely - all less. This is especially true of men. This has led scientists behind the Irish poet and Nobel laureate William Butler Yeats repeated: ...
Now the institution of family is going through a rather difficult time. Earlier, before the XXI century, people had only one goal - to survive, and together make it much easier than one at a time. In addition, the idea of ​​divorce is not very welcomed by the Church. Recently, Russian society has begun a kind of cell transition: a man loses his role of breadwinner, his place gets more and more women, but the new model of the family has not had time to settle.

Whatever it was, in the western world it is difficult to find a young couple living on a ... Long-term marriage is increasingly being replaced by a series of short-term alliances. In sociology this is called serial polygamy. ... - In the West, a new mother or father a child - it is normal ...

Moreover, sequential polygamy is even a special legal basis. In some states in America have the opportunity to conclude a ...

In Russia this yet, but followers of serial polygamy is enough. Alexei Chernyshev only 27 years old, but he was married three times, divorced, paying child support and is going to marry again. ... - After this period, lost libido, and a man pulls to the side. I just want to be honest with your partner. It is better to be a loyal friend, than the wrong man ...

A more exaggerated form of serial polygamy - the so -called snack- marriage. Given the lack of time people do not want to build a close relationship with the second half. Partners do not have common friends, hobbies, not many know each other, but meet once a week for the sake of easy, lots of fun and sex. However, they do not change each other for reasons of hygiene rather than emotional. ... - There were no screams, scandals, no problems. My husband just charges you with positive energy and it does not distract from the work and study ...

No less common today, and guest marriage. This is when a man and woman live together, usually in different cities or even countries, communicating mostly by phone and the Internet and coming together only once or twice a month. ... - Now it is typical of the history, when a man is forced to work to move to another city, such as lead bank branch. When the woman refuses to leave behind loved ones, because they do not want to risk their careers and seek employment in a new place. Guest marriage - it is an adult decision respecting each other's people who do not want to expose the suffering partner for their own self-interest and are even willing to abandon for the sake of a regular sex life. That is why the guest is very stable form of the marriage of family relationships ...

Psychologists say that in recent years, Russians have become more honest. Hide treason in many families is worse than openly admit it. Couples who are considering on the side of love as inevitable, is called an open marriage, living. That is the preferred form of cohabitation famous physicist and Nobel Prize winner Lev Landau, according to the diaries of his wife and the creators of the movie ...

... - My friends these are the. His wife, going on a date, asked her husband if she looks good. Her husband asks her to buy on March eighth gift to his mistress. However, they are absolutely happy ...

An extreme form of an open marriage - polygamy and polyandry. In modified form, they return to the life of modern man. It may be a so-called Swedish family - Communal marriage alliance between several men and women. Such relationships are common in the West in squats - abandoned houses that populate the young radicals - artists, musicians, poets.

A more common form of polygamy - the remote. ... - The wife and children he leaves at home, send them money from time to time come to them on vacation. To solve the problem of registration, a migrant may enter into marriage with a local woman with whom he may have a close relationship ...

Another type of polygamous relationships - polygamy or polyandry virtual, when in addition to legitimate second half a man, there is also a permanent partner in the Internet. In ... These relationships help to keep the family real, although in practice with his virtual partner is a man spiritually closer than with those with whom he lived under one roof.

Seriously I have a family and for the youngest members. ... What a crime to waste it on children ... For many couples, these words become the motto.

It's not just that kids are now trying to start as late as possible - the development of artificial insemination and the institution of adoption actually reduce to zero the risk of failure. The thing is that there are families who are fundamentally and forever decide to abandon children. They are called childfree - free from the children. On the Russian forum of supporters of this view says, ... And this exhibit is selfishness ...

In childless families, the role of the child are often quite successfully plays a pet, and in some cases - one of the spouses, usually a man. On infantilism 30 -year-old has repeatedly mentioned in connection with the channel «2x2».

Take root in Russia or not these forms of the family if they can finally drive out the formula, ... On the one hand, the changed social conditions that contribute to. Increasing the role of the career, the feminization of society, the sexual revolution, and the constant lack of time, egoizatsiya population - have all contributed to the fact that to keep two people together for many years in the coming years will be able to unless the mortgage is taken together.

On the other hand, one can not discount going full swing in Russia and Europe, a process of ... The enormous flow of migrants from developing countries are moving in earnings and a better share in the developed. Newcomers bring with them the traditional way and the classical notion of a strong family with many children. Sociologists say that under pressure from the Europeans migrants may return to traditional values ​​, or to disappear....